We meet again but, this time, I am no longer heartbroken. Yes, I have finally moved on from the pain and hurt of my last relationship. I am now in the what I call, the dating game. Goodness, who knew I would ever wind up here again. Alas, I am and I am enjoying every minute of it.
Dating is so much fun if you play the game correctly. I have heard so many complaints about dating and how hard it is. It's my belief that the only reason why it is so hard to date is because, of the expectations we all have for one another. Most women are looking to settle down and, most men are seeking a good time. The trick is to keep your expectations low. This doesn't mean that one doesn't have to have small requirements. What I am saying is to throw away the list! Ladies, I know you all know exactly what I am talking about. Those who do not know what "the list" is, I'll explain further. It's all of those qualities,traits, and qualifications we require in a mate. An example of this would be a height requirement. I know that I love tall men. A man who is over six feet with an athletic build and blue eyes is on the top of my list. Although this is my preference, I don't discount anyfuture prospects, if they don't fit the bill. I am learning to take people as they come and as they are.The only issue I have with dating is when it starts to get serious. I have done some research on the subject and the amount of time dating should thing go before it gets exclusive. I have found that most people are told by their dates, upfront, that they are really not looking for anything serious. THIS IS THE KEY PHRASE... If you are not mentally strong enough for casual dating, do not start dating someone who is emotionally unavailable. It is important to be honest with yourself and to accept someone as he or she comes. Most people who are in the dating game know exactly what they want. People will also show you how they feel about you through their actions. I have a man who cooks for me and spoils me rotten. I have another one that I only speak to via internet. The last two guys only text me when they are bored and have nothing else to do. I don't know this as fact but, it surely seems that way.
My plan for myself is to enjoy being single while I am still single. I have no expectations for myself as far as marriage goes. Though, I do have inductive reasoning skills. I have a pattern of being in the dating game for three months and, shortly after I am in a new relationship. I am trying to break that cycle by being the master of my own destiny. I am going to date. date. date, until my dating card is completely full.
I hope all of you bloggers, who are in the dating game, have an amazing time. Go out tonight and remember the key phrase. If you can't stand the heat, get the heck out of the kitchen. ;)